Choosing the right path: Boys Ranch helps Randall change course of his life

Even though they have lived apart during most of his 17 years, Randall and his mother share one thing in common - they made decisions that resulted in the loss of their independence and freedom. While the path Randall's mother chose led her to prison, Randall's behavior and actions led him to the Methodist Children's Home Boys Ranch four years ago.

Prior to coming to the Ranch, Randall struggled with making the right decisions. He spent most of his time fighting, skipping school and arguing with his aunt, who has provided long-term care for Randall. He knew he was pushing the limit when he began to commit crimes.

"I was doing everything wrong but I didn't care," he said. "I felt I could do anything I wanted to do."

Fortunately for Randall, his aunt had other plans. Holding out hope that Randall could change, she sought help from the Boys Ranch. The highly-structured program changed the course of his life. Instead of doing things his way, Randall learned to live within a system of rules, regulations and expectations. Today, Randall understands that his attitude and actions directly affect his privileges and level of freedom at the Ranch.

Reflecting on his growth and maturity, Randall is thankful that his aunt cared enough to send him to the Boys Ranch.

"My aunt did the best she could; I just wouldn't listen," he said. "I'm glad she sent me here because it's helped me a lot."

After struggling through his first few years at the Ranch, Randall finally hit his stride. Success in school, basketball, Future Farmers of America (FFA) and at his off-campus job helped Randall gain self-confidence, develop leadership abilities and earn the respect of his peers and staff. Last fall, Randall received the Boys Ranch Top Hand Award in recognition of his personal growth and success.

"It is an amazing accomplishment for me," Randall said. "For a long time, I was so confused; I didn't know what to do. I finally asked God to help me and I began to work hard to make good choices."

Randall appreciates the support of his homeparents and other staff members who challenge him to succeed.

"It took me awhile to realize they're here to help me," he said. "I've done some pretty bad things but they forgave me."

Randall's efforts have led to success in a variety of Ranch programs, most notably FFA where he consistently earns high marks at competitions for his woodworking projects and his work with steers. Last year, he raised a grand champion steer, an honor he would like to achieve again this spring.

"When I won grand champion, it was crazy," he said. "All those people came up to congratulate me. It made me feel good."

Randall's interest in FFA and basketball motivates him to succeed in the classroom. His basketball coach, Kenneth Alexander, strictly enforces the Boys Ranch "no pass, no play" philosophy. Randall hears the message loud and clear.

"Mr. Kenneth reminds me that it's my choice - if I pass, then I'll play," he said.

Today, it's an easy choice for Randall to make.

This article appeared in the December 2003 issue of Sunshine. Methodist Children's Home, Waco, Texas